Sunday, August 2, 2020

Would you buy me a cup of coffee?

This darned virus is still on the rise here, so we haven't been holding sessions for months. Although that's sad, we all have to do our best to keep ourselves--and each other--safe. But in the meantime, if you have a need to serve, how are you getting it met? Don't forget that for about the price of a small Starbucks a day, you can have my one-on-one attention here: https://www.softsandalwood.com/p/texting.html

You can even send it via my coffee account at ko-fi.com.

Bottoms up, my coffee slaves!

Sunday, March 29, 2020

Getting what you need during social distancing

During the pandemic... what are you doing to get your needs met? If you're not able to see people in person and you can't do that... if your deepest need is to serve someone else's needs... how are you achieving that?

Might I suggest a safe way to maintain appropriate social distancing?

Be my text sub. I'll be your Text Mistress. Think of this as a long-distance service arrangement. Sometimes we'll just chat and it will be casual. Sometimes I'll have an assignment for you or ask you for photos. Sometimes I'll send them.

Intrigued? Jump over here and find out how: https://www.softsandalwood.com/p/texting.html

Wednesday, February 5, 2020

Fingernails as a tool of domination & sensation

Nails. I love getting my nails done! They're not just pretty, but they're so practical in my line of work. My nails can make you shiver from sensuous light touch... deliver the most satisfying back scratch... make you gasp as they score your scalp... or yowl from a serious clawing.

Manicure day is tomorrow!

Thursday, November 28, 2019

Don't let 2019 escape without checking this off your list...

[UPDATE: December is booked. Happy New Year, darlings! I'll post January dates soon.]

Remember that list of things you wanted to do by the end of 2019? Well, it's coming up soon. So if your goals were to be more active in kink... to have a diapering/ABDL session... to experience an exquisitely paced spanking... to have your makeup done properly... to finally experience the lucsiousness of rope... I have THREE session dates open in December:

Sunday, December 8, 7pm to midnight
Saturday, December 14, all day
Sunday, December 15, 11am to 4pm

Here's how to make an inquiry: https://www.softsandalwood.com/p/inquiries-appointments.html

See you under the mistletoe!

Sunday, November 3, 2019

November 9: Grand Island, NE

Just wrapped up a travel weekend to Cedar Rapids, IA, where I took private sessions and also presented several informational panels about BDSM at a small science-fiction convention, ICON. Thanks to those who attended and it's always nice to make new friends!

On to Grand Island, NE, where I have two openings for Saturday, November 9th. This is a great opportunity to explore your interests, find out what you like and don't like, and get much-needed "escape time" with someone who knows what the hell they're doing ;-)

One hour is a good amount of time to try out a small session of "traditional" BDSM activities like being tied up, flogged, spanked, foot workship, CBT, or the like. The rate is $200 + hotel split of $40.

A 90-minute session is the perfect amount of time to get comfortable and go over courtesies and expectations, spend time in session, and allow time for aftercare. 90 minutes is $250 + hotel split of $40.

I'm also an excellent Nanny for all you ABDLs and Littles who need some attention! Nanny time is a $50 booking fee and $60/hour flat rate for a total of $110.

For more session ideas, check out my favorite activities here.

I am real and verified, and happy to put you in touch with others who can vouch for me in the face-to-face community in Nebraska & Iowa, so get in touch: softsandalwood@gmail.com or send me a PM on FetLife!

Thursday, September 26, 2019

Booking Availability

Autumn is my favorite season and there's so much that keeps me busy... but I do have some dates available for booking a session! Here's what's open currently. As they become booked I will update them as soon as possible:

Fri Nov 1, 6:00-9:00pm in Cedar Rapids, IA
Sat Nov 2, 3:00-10:00pm in Cedar Rapids, IA
Sun Nov 3, 10:00am-2:00pm in Cedar Rapids, IA -- coffee dates only 
NEW: Sat Nov 9 in Grand Island, NE
Sun Nov 10 in Lincoln, NE - booked
Tue Nov 12 after 7:00 pm in Lincon, NE
Thu Nov 14 after 5:30pm in Lincoln, NE
Sat Nov 16 at Vortex Omaha
Sat Nov 30 in Lincoln, NE
Sun Dec 1 before 4pm in Lincoln, NE
Tue Dec 10 after 6pm - booked
Fri Dec 13 after 6pm in Lincoln, NE
Sun Dec 15 before 4pm in Lincoln, NE