Coffee date

What's a coffee date... and why? 

Meeting face-to-face for the first time can be nerve-wracking, especially for those who are new to the lifestyle or who have not yet worked with a Pro. So let's make this easy. Let's do coffee.

The coffee date is a one-time special "getting to know you" option that (1) gives us a chance to chat in a low-pressure setting, and (2) allows you to make an appointment and show that you can follow through. Think of it as a bridge to booking your first session.

Here's how it works: simply get in touch to ask if I'm available for a coffee date. We will pick a date and time. Be ready with a non-refundable $60 tribute payable at; alas, I have had too many people set up a coffee date and then cancel or no-show at the last minute. Remember one of the purposes of this type of arrangement is to demonstrate that you will follow through on a commitment to a dominant. 

At the time we agreed on, you show up, we greet each other. You pay for our coffees, then we sit and chat and get to know each other better.

People meet for coffee all the time. You can do this. Take the first step and email me to schedule a coffee date ( or message me on Twitter or FetLife!