Helpful hints


Ten tips for getting off on the right foot with Ms. Sandalwood:
  1. I love a good student, so do your research. The answers to many of your questions are contained right here on the site and in my FetLife profile. It's poor form to ask a question when you can look up the answer yourself. 
  2. Be polite, but don't grovel or beg in your first contact. Use the same tone you would use in applying for a volunteer position that you really want.
  3. If English is not your first language or if you have a learning disability that makes writing difficult, let me know. Otherwise, use correct spelling and good grammar. I'm not impressed by "cap and slash" pronouns that originated in the early days of online kink; e.g.  "W/we," "U/us," using lowercase "i" to refer to yourself, capitalizing all of my pronouns. It creates visual clutter and makes reading difficult. 
  4. Don't sent dick pics, photos of your asshole, or nudes of any kind. A tasteful photo including your face is very much appreciated. You know what I look like; I'd like to know what you look like.
  5. Be concise. Keep it to the point, politely. To avoid a lot of back-and-forth messaging, make sure that you gather any questions that you weren't able to find the answer to on this website, and include them in the email. We should be able to take care of your questions and make suitable arrangements within a couple of emails on each side.
  6. Be patient. My professional life and my personal life are both very busy. Allow up to three days for a response. I know it's hard to wait, but patience is a virtue and shows you have some self-discipline. Plus, I love creating that sense of antici.... 
  7. While you are waiting for a reply, you should buy me a coffee, read the rest of the website, pore through my profile and writings on FetLife, on Twitter, look through my OnlyFans, and make good use of your time!
  8. Read this outstanding piece by Mistress Kalyss Mercury for additional tips for contacting a dominant.
  9. There is no number 9.
  10. ...pation.  


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